Here’s my journey

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Everyone writes these posts. I’m going to start by saying that I really don’t know much more than the average Medium writer. I’m not the best. I’m not the worst. But I’m pretty happy that I’ve been able to make a nice little amount of change from writing stuff that I enjoy and by being me.

This is story #312.

I write about sex

Not all the time. But a lot of the time. I write fiction and I write articles about my experiences. I’m pretty transparent about my sex life. I am more comfortable doing that because I use a pen name.


Yes, It’s A Pen Name But I’m A Real Person! I Swear!

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Usually when I start writing somewhere new or join a new social network I introduce myself. I realized today that I haven’t done that here! I don’t know how many people will care enough to read and find out who I am, but I figured a good old introduction post might be due.

So, who is Autumn Seave?

Autumn Seave Is My Main Pen Name

Yes, I use a pen name. But this pen name is no less me than the name I was given at birth. I’ve been using this name for over 20 years now, so Autumn Seave is very much me.

I started using…


All my erotic stories in one place

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Sometimes I write non-fiction on Medium but mostly it is my dirty, smutty stories that readers love the most. So, I’ve created this handy index for you; categorized and even an index so you can find the kind of smut you love the most!


· Series Guides
NEW and In Progress
Completed Series
· Short Stories
Alphas & Billionaires
Romance & Coupledom
BDSM — Sub Life
Threesomes & Moresomes
Lesbian — Women Loving Women!
Taboo (Gender swap, step-relations, best friend’s dad, best friend’s daughter)

Series Guides

I have…

Hey there — remember me? Sometimes I think I don’t do these personal posts often enough (it’s been over a month since #17) and other times I wonder why I do them at all. I mean, does anyone really care? I don’t know. Does it matter? Not really. LOL. These are for me and who ever cares to read.


Patreon. Ya. It’s back.

See, the thing is that Stripe pulled accounts of some Medium smut writers. Not sex writers, but writers who primarily write dirty stories. …

It’s too soon to tell but it’s not too soon to start thinking about an alternative


Yesterday two Medium writers lost their Stripe accounts for daring to monetize their smut. If you want to know more you can read about it on Twitter here and here (and the follow up to an appeal here).

TLDR — one writer had her account reinstated. The other had his appeal denied.

Stripe might decide to start looking at more accounts or this could be the end of it. It’s hard to tell with massive companies like this. …

Because I’m not only a sex writer

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“Sex and erotica author”

It’s in my bio because when I write something that is in a publication that isn’t about sex, I feel like readers should know they are going to get a lot of sex stuff from me if they follow me.

Sex and erotica aren’t the only thing I write about though.

So, I thought I would highlight some of my favorite posts that aren’t about sex. You may have missed these. Honestly, they just aren’t as popular as my posts about sex or my erotica stories. …

Ok Mediumites. Tips for managing the following with #ADHD brain:

— money/impulse spending

— medication

— time management/work

Any other tips appreciated. If you don’t have ADHD remember that my…

Just out of curiosity…what would happen if I started posting short, Twitter like posts on Medium several times a day, instead of posting them on Twitter? Or maybe as well…

It’s such a relief to find out it’s not

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Around 4 or 5 years ago, I read something about adult ADHD. Or watched a video. Or maybe I was doing both at the same time. You know.

And what I read and/or watch resonated with me. I started thinking…do I have ADHD?

I’d always had a really low opinion of myself. I made goals that would never get met. As I writer I have more outlined story ideas than I have written stories. And you’ve seen my fiction stories here. I have a lot of them.

My house was a disaster area (like you don’t even want to know…

And I’m Nervous

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Why would anyone go to get assessed for ADHD at 51 years of age? Why does it even matter at this point?

I’ll tell you why it matters.

Because if I have ADHD, it means that I am not a total failure. It means that I’m not just lazy and disorganized. It means that it’s not a personal flaw that I have never been able to get my shit together.

I first started making a connection between my life and ADHD about five years ago. It’s not that I didn’t know what ADHD was. But I associated it with children…

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